Because what we tell them, stays with them all their life.
We all know the importance of words used with children, it is believed that what we tell our kids in childhood, stays with them all their life. And these words and phrases are what turn them into different things in the future. Here are some of the phrases that kids need to hear from their parents time and again.
We are so proud of you
Your child needs to know from the very start that his parents are looked up to themand believe in them. For its infancy, a child always looks for validation from its parents. But when they see their parents often comparing, humiliating them for their mistakes, their confidence goes down very fast. So, whatever may be the circumstances, try to tell your child how proud you are of them. It would help them to become confident individuals.
Yes, go for it
Whenever your child is facing any challenge or difficult moment that may scare them, hold their hand and tell them that they can do it! They must go for it. Children possess infinite courage and a simple nudge of confidence from parents can make them thrive. We all know how adulthood is full of challenging circumstances and we cannot keep on protecting our children always. So, encourage them to take on challenges that can help them in their life later on.
We believe in you
Children especially pre-teens and teenagers are the people who are the most in self-doubt. Are they capable? What do people think of them? What would happen if they fail? Are they smart like their friends or siblings? These questions often hover in the mind of your child. So, amidst all these self-doubts, a kind phrase from parents such as “we believe in you” can uplift their spirit and help them overcome all these complexes.
I love you
These simple words may seem ordinary but are very vital for a happy and confident child. Children should know, not just by your actions but by your words that you love them unconditionally. According to a survey, it was revealed that 95% of the adolescents revealed that they feel that parents love them when they did well in school or extra-circular activities. So, make them believe that they are enough, that you love them no matter what.
So, what would you tell your kid today?
