Imagine you meeting the person that you have asked the Universe for! The way you envisioned it, just like that!
Due to my line of work, I connect with many couples for one to six months in a variety of settings. I typically categorise the couples into one of three groups after observing how they handle this mixture of trying and intimate moments:
The successful alliances (85%)
These couples appear to have at least one thing in common, such as a shared sexual attraction or set of values or hobbies. They also have a shared past that they have developed. They can converse and laugh about the tales and recollections they have. They are at ease with one another because they are well acquainted. They would make good business partners if marriage were a profession. They are enjoyable to be around, and I have no doubt that they will have fulfilling marriages and that having a life partner will make their lives better.
WTF couple (10 %)
This couple criticises one another behind the other's back. The struggle between their want and contempt is frequently referred to as "passion" in these people. Their sexual attraction or dependency fights against their hatred. They constantly place blame on one another, criticise one another, and act defensively. They frequently misinterpret their ongoing conflict for the existence of "soul mates" for some reason, but let me assure you that this is not the case. I've learnt to kindly avoid booking these couples because they are nothing but drama
Discovering your soulmate (5%)
I have no words to describe what I see in these couples. Simply said, I'm blown away by their love. While filming the vows and speeches, I occasionally struggle to maintain my professional demeanour and catch a tear running down my cheek. It's something I rarely see and have never personally experienced like what these couples have. Their mutual regard, adoration, encouragement, and kindness are unmatched. They resolve disputes amicably and always consider each other's sentiments when making decisions. Despite feeling secure in their individuality, their identities also appear to be intertwined. They are always in agreement. In the words of their friends, "Just when we thought our friend couldn't get any better, he met her, and he became an even better version of himself." As he unwillingly nods his head, the father remarks, "I thought I did a good job giving my daughter a happy childhood, but I have to admit, this is the happiest I have ever seen my daughter in her life." I can only presume that they've hit the jackpot and discovered someone who is absolutely intellectually, emotionally, and sexually compatible with them.
What about you?
If you've managed to find a compatible spouse, please accept my congrats. That's better than many others, and you two will undoubtedly be happy for the rest of your lives. And if you have, then you should count your lucky stars. Some of us will only be able to dream about that. According to science, being married to the right person increases success. If you get lucky, you might obtain much more if you marry for love.
The secret to Success!
Success is the result of several circumstances. Your mentality is extremely important. The goal is to increase one's resolve, willpower, and tenacity because these qualities can be acquired. It greatly helps to be more likeable. (And, yes, you can also acquire that trait.) People who have reasonably responsible and dependable spouses typically perform better at work, gaining more promotions, making more money, and feeling more content with their professions, according to Washington University in St. Louis researchers. "Partner conscientiousness" accurately predicted future job happiness, earnings, and promotion chances for both men and women (even after controlling for participant conscientiousness).
